You’ll also see that sometimes things are a little bit awkward – but that’s nothing to be ashamed of or worried about.
Sex is awkward sometimes, whether it’s your first time or your 200th time.
If you definitely feel like you’re ready to have sex, then I think you should definitely talk to your partner about it. I know you don’t want to seem inexperienced, but the fact is, he have more experience than you and that’s not going to change.
You’re not going to look “stupid” for telling him you haven’t gone as far as he has yet.
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Don’t stress over having the perfect first time or worry about looking “stupid.” If this guy is really as great as you say he is, he won’t care that you’re not totally sure on what to do.
So, I’m pleased to share with you some expert thoughts on the subject…I knew I’d get some interesting feedback, and they did not disappoint.
Jack from F*cking in Brooklyn, who I love to follow because his honesty leaps off the page.
If he thinks you’ve already done this before, he’s going to do whatever and expect you to know what to do. Sure, you can watch porn and study it to figure out where things go and how things happen.
If he knows it’s your first time, he will probably be more willing to go slowly and help you figure things out. But in the end, your experience is going to be your own. You’ll see that once things get going, they kind of just fall into place.