Similarly, if you claim to love your job but the time stamp on your message says you sent it at 9.30 on a Monday morning, your reader might doubt your career ethic.
Stick to neutral hours, like lunchtimes and early evening.
So don’t be the party pooper that sends a page-and-half long essay as your first message.
Actually come to think of it, save the life story for when you’re on your fourth date.
Struggling to think of the right thing to say to an attractive match?
Here’s match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor with dating advice on how to give great copy.
Tailor it to their interests or their work, or even one of their photos.
Ask open questions that require more than a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ reply, because these are more interesting to answer.
Everyone I know either has Tinder on their phone, has it installed and doesn’t want to admit it, or is a nun. Are you able to ignite a little more than curiosity in your matches or are you the type of guy that gets featured on one of those “embarrassing Tinder stories” articles?So here’s the thing; some women might tell you that a simple “Hi, how are you doing? But in all honesty, unless you follow a generic message like this up with something mighty funny or mighty interesting the chances of you getting anything more than a couple of polite responses are slimmer than one of those Victoria Secret models. One of my favorite ways to open on Tinder is with something funny.You see, at the end of the day the first message isn’t really about what you say. So if you can get a girl giggling from the get go you’re off to a great start.Example:but it still surprises me every time I read a Tinder horror story about some creepy guy going from 0-100 within the first few seconds.So seriously do yourself a favor and stay away from anything that you wouldn’t say out loud to a person in real life. Like: Part of the fun of Tinder is that it’s just so damn fast.